"The Road Not Taken"
The title of this blog is from the poem by Robert Frost. Kinshasa is a city with many forks in the road. However, very few roads have actual names. If they do have a name, there may not be a street sign to tell you where you are. There are no maps of the streets. There are no phone books. There are no numbers on the stores or houses. There is no mail service. And it is a city of 8 million people. How does one get around? By landmarks, of course. The Mercedes dealership. The statue of Mobutu. The Vodacom (cell phone) shop. The Jewish store. The River. The Grand Hotel. The pharmacie. How do I describe where I live? Take Kasa Vubu, through Kintambo, then go up the Mobuto Hill and follow the Matadi Road (it leads to the city of Matadi on the ocean) past TASOK (the American School). When you pass the triangle, watch for the Queen's Restaurant on the left and the Water Company called Regideso, on your right, Take the next left. I'm at #6 Mukoku. When you arrive at the gate, honk and Ndambele will open it up for you. Easy, eh?
So what do you get when you use a poem like Frost's in a class here and ask, have you ever stood at the fork in the road and had to decide which road to take? For one, you get a 25-ish young man who says he had to choose between staying with his family in the war torn Kivu area where he had a job and moving to the Kinshasa where he could go to school. You get a young woman who made a decision to leave her Muslim husband because he didn't treat her well. You get a 30-ish woman who completed her law degree and can't find a job here, and desparately wants to obtain custody of her deceased sister's young children from the Netherlands. You get a soft spoken son of a pastor whose sister is in medical school both of whose lives were spared because they were able to get on the second of three planes out of the war torn east in 1996. His cousins were not so fortunate and were delayed on the third plane. The stories go on.
"And I--I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference."